Acrotaphus wiltii ♀.
| This wasp is a major foe of the arabesque orb weaver, Neoscona arabesca. The wasp stings the spider to briefly paralyze it while she lays a single egg on it. The larva is an external parasite. Acrotaphus wiltii is the only slender species with black bands on orange to yellowish wings.
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